Saturday, December 15, 2007

Copy-pasta entry number 4.

The ups and downs of a marriage.

In a marriage, there will alway be joys and sorrows. They usually run deeper than in the ordinary boyfriend/girlfriend relationships because they have a responsibility with each other and to each other that ordinary boyfriend/girlfriend relationships do not have, maybe because the time spent with each other is different, and people in a married relationship are usually more mature.

When being married, they should have a stable relationship. They should also learn to be committed to each other, because there's bound to be people who either of them could be attracted to. However, if they genuinely care for their spouse, they should not give each other up. They should also learn to work through their problems and not be irritated at every wrongdoing 24/7. I don't think problems could be avoided, but it shouldn't be left hanging in the air just like that.

I don't think I'll get married anytime soon, if ever. I just can't see myself with a single person because I'm not the person to be bound by something... but that may change soon. And if ever I do look for a partner, I'd like him to be considerate of my feelings (because they tend to spiral out of control at the most inopportune moments) and that person MUST possess some sort of intellect (sarcasm, wit, interesting knowledge) because I don't like people who just nod at everything I say.

1 comment:

Goddess Tear said...

Hear hear! I couldn't agree with you more.